Friend, who is your best friend in life?
You probably will start thinking who is your closest friend, who is he or she? your classmates, your church mates, etc etc... This is really an interesting question to ask yourself.
I want to specifically talk a little bit about best friend in marriage here.
This question will probably wake up many people when comes to life in marriage. What's your take?
Recently, Pastor Tim just shared about topics in marriage and he revealed one little thing that people always tend to ignore when comes to marriage and being husband and wife. That is really something that i personally is learning from Day 1 when i was courting my girlfriend who is of course my wife now, people who know me long enough will understand that better.
You see, many people got into marriage just because of getting married, or because of any other reasons and later they find themself struggling with their relationship with each other. Isn't that stupid? Sorry, maybe i should find other word, but that's the most suitable word that i can think of now. Why would you want to get into this relationship and start struggling with it? Better Not if you are not ready. That's my view. I am sure many people would disagree with me. Think about that.
But what if you are in the relationship? You must be the best friend of each other! There is really no excuse. That is one of the secret of becoming life long partners and you both will enjoy the companionship much better along the way, no matter what happen. Isn't that simple?
I came across this article in Our Daily Life today, it touches on a real story happened last year September when the "Crocodile Hunter" died. His wife Terri shared in an interview that she lost her "prince" and best friend in life. There is a lot of thing to learn from this little thing, who is your best friend?
Start changing your mindset and relationship today if you are still not the best friend of your wife or husband! It is still not too late.
You may then ask, How to go about doing it?
2 simple tips here,
1. Remind yourself of being the best friend over and over again...because you tend to forget.
2. Have fun together! over and over again...
To your success!
Thomas